Wednesday, 21 May 2014

How To Become A Winner Part 1

Winning. It's something everybody wants to do but not everybody can. If you think you have what it takes then I'm going to show you how to be a winner in life.

Your Brain Controls Your Feet, So It Controls Your Actions To

Have you ever heard anyone talk about a winners mentality whether it be in school or in some cliché movie etc. Well it is something that every winner needs. Half of every battle is fought in your head and thinking you're not good enough can lead to you missing the gold by a hair.

There is also a saying that says everyone's a winner. This is nice and all if your still in primary school or having a friendly competition but in the real world there is only one winner. So that person who missed the gold by a little has still lost because they haven't got the gold.

Usually the winners are the people who believe in themselves as at the end of the day all you have is yourself. If your brain can control your feet then it can control your actions, if you don't think you're good enough then you'll be less likely to try. Once you've mastered the art of self belief and confidence then you can start your journey towards being a winner.

Winning Is Not For The Lazy

Ever known that person who puts no effort in and gets straight A's or is exceptional at a sport or music etc. It may seem like they are winners without even trying and that some people were born winners. But I don't think this is true. The reason that they aren't winners is because they aren't winning at something that actually matters to them.

For example I've always been good academically and I can get A's without much effort but they mean nothing because it's not what I love.

I believe you are only truly a winner when you win at what you love and that takes time, hard work and dedication. Winning is not for the faint hearted and any winners you see didn't get there by accident.

You can't just walk in half asleep and expect to get everything you wanted. Life doesn't work like that and I think it's better that way. This way when you do win it'll mean that much more because you worked for it.

I've Got Medals And Trophies- Does That Mean I'm A Winner

I don't believe winning is just about how many trophies or medals you have in your trophy case. Being a winner is about more than that it's almost a state of mind.

You can be a winner without having ever won a trophy or medal. Many successful artists, musicians, business people didn't get a trophy for their achievements and at the end of the day a trophy is just a piece of metal.   But the sense of achievement and self satisfaction that you get is what real winners live for.

That's all for now, why don't you leave your comments below I'd this helped you. Becoming a winner is hard and isn't to be taken on lightly. But equipped with my tools you can have a smoother journey. Also before you decide if you want to become a winner you need to decide what you want to win at. Hopefully you guys liked it and I'll see you again for part 2 on Saturday, stay amazing x. :)

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